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Where to get energy? ⠀ To begin with, let the idea sink in that each one of us has this energy source within us. When we only allow this source to be inside us, it will start to beep and respond.⠀ ⠀ How do we catch its signals? Recognize the slightest glimmer of lively interest in whatever. When the eyes light up because of something. It's that real interest that connects everyone with their living, creative part. The part that is capable of experiencing pure joy. The habit of gathering these little lights will open up access to inner resources.

What is the destructive power of depreciation? ⠀ Impairment always contains some evaluative judgment or comparison with someone better, and devaluation always has the feeling of becoming less than you are. You are told all the time that you fall short of the expectations of whoever is evaluating you. Critical remarking is a fairly common form of devaluation that many parents apply, both as a form of parenting to their children and for communicating with their marriage partner. After a critical remark, you may still be given advice even though you haven't asked anyone for advice. In this way, devaluation is aimed at making you feel like a complete nothing, an incompetent, unselfish infantile, stupid and completely unfit for life.⠀

How do mindsets and stereotypes affect our lives? In simple terms, they are our glasses through which we perceive the world around us, they color it in different ways, and they determine our attitude toward it. Absolutely everyone has these glasses. Yeah, reality hurts us for our narrow-minded beliefs. There are serious attitudinal differences among different social groups. For instance: The poor are more likely to believe that little can be changed in the world, that their fate is predetermined (hence there is no need to try to change anything), while the rich more often believe that much depends on them personally (hence one can and should change the world around them). Can a person with a deep conviction of no talent create a masterpiece of art? For this reason, it is essential to have the right attitudes, to believe in one's own strength, and to persevere in the right direction.

How to attract good luck and love into your life? Grab a couple of simple affirmations. By repeating them every morning, you're sure to set yourself in the right mood👇🏻 Luck No pondering or doubting: "Maybe I wish luck would come to me...". The saying goes, "I believe luck will surely smile on me today!" Luck Believe in a bright future and say, "I will do anything for happiness." The more you repeat this word, the faster you will come close to the realization of your goals. Love Don't be afraid to say compliments, show attention to loved ones, talk more often about love to your life partner. If you are visited by strong, joyful emotions, share them with friends. Praise people. See how the world around you will begin to reciprocate you.

Pity is the best controlling lever That's because our psyche is built that way. I've met very few people who are so "ironclad" that no pity can get through to them. And people begin to unconsciously obey and try their best to help you. ➡️ But the main thing here is not to overdo it, otherwise you can be caught and sent away.

Learning how to catch liars The first thing I recommend you start👉 with the eyes. Always look into the eyes. Quite often people, when lying they look away to the side, or up and to the left. ✔️ Especially children tend to look away because of shame. But there are skilled liars who do this without looking away. Then they can be caught blinking more often. Men are big fans of rubbing their eyes when they lie, while women are more inclined to touch their lips or chin. In fact, touching the face while lying is a classic. Now go and check on your loved ones to see if they are lying to you. I'll tell you later how to catch more experienced liars.

One tip for you, men It seems to me that I won't say anything new, but if you wish the dialogue with women to be not only constructive, but also useful for you, you should never raise your tone. Why❓ Because their emotional sphere is much more developed and everything is interpreted as aggression on the subconscious. ☝️My advice: Better use a confident tone periodically, raising the tone slightly and smoothly lowering it. And make eye contact at all times, especially when she is speaking.

The Triple Rule - Warm Quiet Dark ⠀ A rule that gives us a sense of security. Hear the real you. Feel your body - what it is crying out for. ⠀ Real self-care is a care filled with GRACE to your body. Your thoughts. Your feelings. Self-care is it without all these conditions. ⠀ ❗️ If I feel like resting, I rest. ❗️ If I wish to eat, I eat. ❗️ If I want to sleep, I sleep. ❗️ If I don't need to socialize with toxic people, I don't socialize. ⠀ I hear my body and my desires. I hear my thoughts.

Fear of relationships - where from and how to get rid of Tough boundaries are about trying to defend yourself where no one ever thought of encroaching on you, about fencing yourself off from close relationships and trying to put up a higher fence to make sure no one gets over... How to overcome the fear of relationships❓ The first thing to do is to admit your fear, to say out loud what you are afraid of. Then stand in front of a mirror and say out loud a supportive phrase about yourself. For example: "My fear is just a shadow of a past relationship. I realize that men are different and I desire to allow myself a new relationship, and it will be better than before." The most important thing is to acknowledge your fear. Support yourself and let the anxiety fade away.

Helplessness - where from and why? When a man beats a woman, many people condemn her. Like, how can you not leave, how can you put up with this crap. But in fact, she often CANNOT and her "infantilism" has a scientific explanation, which is called "learned helplessness"👐🏻 If a child is beaten by parents since childhood, put under moral pressure (humiliated, oppressively brought up), he got used to the fact that he has to tolerate, there's nowhere to go. And when in the future such a person found himself in similar conditions, he acted according to the familiar scenario "endure and suffer".